tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3355581918149158330.post1329065374707894074..comments2023-07-03T10:42:27.358-04:00Comments on Product of a Generation: Finding the wordsEntropicDesignhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11105879406886246851noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3355581918149158330.post-81412508570000893662007-04-13T01:59:00.000-04:002007-04-13T01:59:00.000-04:00Been there, man. All you can do is keep on keepin...Been there, man. All you can do is keep on keepin' on. Sounds corny, I know.<BR/><BR/>And, remember, that if someone lied to you and cheated on you than that isn't really someone you want to be with anyway. So, be glad you didn't waste more time on them. Believing them, and believing in them. You're better off.Sailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15390112985766755935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3355581918149158330.post-9588359740778072822007-04-13T01:24:00.000-04:002007-04-13T01:24:00.000-04:00I know what you mean about the lies.And it sucks w...I know what you mean about the lies.<BR/><BR/>And it sucks when you love someone so much but are afraid to believe anything they say.Whitchiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763067754792068842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3355581918149158330.post-12017051014775477682007-04-12T23:23:00.000-04:002007-04-12T23:23:00.000-04:00Thank you all for kind and meaningful words.I want...Thank you all for kind and meaningful words.<BR/><BR/>I want to make it clear that I have felt like this before. In fact then it was 100x's worse and I have since then learned a lot about myself and relationships.<BR/><BR/>There is something about this one though.<BR/>Something about how things were in the past couple months we were together. I can't shake this feeling that I was being cheated on, and lied to constantly. Frankly, the person this is in regards to is such a good liar, and sticks to their guns so well, that I would never ever be able to know if they were ever telling the truth if I confronted them.<BR/><BR/>I think what really hurts is that this relationship was unique in a lot of ways, and because of that, these feelings I'm presently engaged in are quite unique as well.<BR/><BR/><BR/>But Ester is right... countless before me have felt the same pains before, and countless more have lived to tell about it.<BR/><BR/>There is so much to learn, and 21 years isn't enough to say I've experienced an ounce of it.EntropicDesignhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11105879406886246851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3355581918149158330.post-31316858909679946882007-04-12T16:29:00.000-04:002007-04-12T16:29:00.000-04:00Well, if this is about a girl... you WILL get over...Well, if this is about a girl... you WILL get over it. You will. Just give it some time.<BR/><BR/>Regardless of who this is about, you have to learn to let things go. If it's worth having, it's worth losing. Simple. Doesn't make it easier right now, but that's the truth.<BR/><BR/>The one thing I can suggest, is doing something... something that validates who you are. Go and create. Go and feel good about that creation. Let it show you that you are a worthwhile person and if someone else doesn't see that in you, then it's their loss, and not yours.Sailhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15390112985766755935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3355581918149158330.post-40254207968339314272007-04-12T12:00:00.000-04:002007-04-12T12:00:00.000-04:00I'm not going to write some long paragraph because...I'm not going to write some long paragraph because, I'm not that smart and I can't use big words, but I will tell you this...<BR/><BR/>God loves you no matter how you feel. Your friends love you no matter how you feel. Your parents love you no matter how you feel. And I care a great deal for you no matter how you feel.Whitchiphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03763067754792068842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3355581918149158330.post-5448525172100504992007-04-12T09:12:00.000-04:002007-04-12T09:12:00.000-04:00I know how you feel about depression feeding into ...I know how you feel about depression feeding into more depression. It's like that with any emotion, really, because it's like energy that we throw into a pattern, and the first step creates inertia, making the second step easier than the first, etc. Personally, I know what you mean, because I have negative streaks, thinking that everything is wrong and sucks. But I have to consciously take a different step to see positivity (which feels impossible!) But in the same way, that first step will lead to an easier next one. Maybe that's a way for you to break depression, is to take the conscious first few steps of thinking positively, and feeling it march inside of you to a beat that doesn't quit.<BR/><BR/>I'm sorry for your feeling of loss. And although your intense emotions are totally unique to you and your experience, there is common ground in how you feel, as people through time and space have also felt intense passionate pain. Just keep it in the back of your mind that you can master and guide the direction of your energy, and when you feel ready, push it toward what you want to be feeling.Ester Wilsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14419940689718469698noreply@blogger.com